Every so often someone tells me that they do not go to services because they do not believe the words that are written in the siddur (prayer book). Here is a secret I will confess:
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What Do We Mean When We Talk About Jewish Identity?
I used to think that if I understood the language that another person spoke, I understood what the person was saying. This is simply not true. When we talk to each other, we have a set of suppositions based on our own experiences that we impose on the conversation.
More...Giving Tuesday
This past Tuesday was “Giving Tuesday.” I am certain that you were inundated with requests for donations—from places that you have supported in the past, from organizations that you believe in, from institutions that offer help to people throughout the world.
More...Preparing for Hannukah
I have spent the whole day making fig jam. During the summer I cleaned and froze the figs I wrenched from the birds that live in my neighborhood.
More...Zichru—You Must Remember
So much of Judaism centers on the root z-ch-r, the Hebrew root for memory. We proclaim, as we chant the words of the kiddush (blessing of sanctification) every shabbat that what we do (or don’t do) on this day is Zecher l’ma’asse v’reshit, in memory of God’s work to make Creation possible.
More...Yom Kippur Remarks, 5784
There are a few things I am certain about in my life. I am certain of the love and of the gratitude I feel for my family, for my friends, for my students, and for my fellow travelers in this Jilli’s journey.
More...Rosh Hashanah Message, 5784
In April of this year there was a cartoon in The New Yorker that portraited four humans carrying big stone blocks on their backs and three robots with whips on their hands ready to whip the humans. The caption said: “to think this all began with letting autocomplete finish our…
More...Approaching the Days of Awe
The first ten days of the Hebrew month Tishrei are called (in Hebrew) Yamim Norayim. Most Jews call this period “the High Holidays,” but this name does not mean much to me. Yamim means days, and Norayim can be translated as awe, reverence, or fear. Translation is always an interpretation,…
More...The Rukin Rabbinic Fellowship
I am very excited to share that I have been selected to be a member of the fourth cohort of the Rukin Rabbinic Fellowship, an 18-month, one-of-a-kind learning opportunity created and sponsored by 18Doors. I am sharing with you today the announcement from 18 Doors about the 4th cohort and the…
More...Apologies and Compassionate Listening
A few weeks ago the actor Jamie Foxx wrote the following Instagram post: “They killed this dude name Jesus… What do you think they’ll do to you? #fake friends #fake love”
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